Another thing to know is not to assume things all the time, it can hurt your friends feelings and make them feel bad whether they really did anything or not. Never judge. No one's gonna be perfect, but you mustn't assume bad things about them over a mistake they made in the past either. I spoke my mind about that to the person, and while I truly regret the result of it, I don't regret having finally spoken up at all. Its much better to lose the friend over telling the truth than to keep the friend over sugarcoating it so much that it's barely even real anymore. I admit my faults: Im sometimes rude, blunt, easy to anger, and rather irritable and easily stressful. Lately just stressful. But I don't judge someone on one thing that went wrong before and I certainly won't start now. No I won't saying that the person was too judgemental either, I do agree with some of their points. I won't agree with all of them, but I will agree with some of them. Like I said, no one's perfect and you shouldn't expect them to be. I admit that what I said might have been in some ways bad, what my friend said in return was in some ways bad. Yet as they say, again, "The Truth hurts". I think it can be said for both sides tonight. *sigh* Thats the problem with arguments: There's no winner for either side, only losers. I admit Im upset even as I type this, but maybe what I said and what the person said in return was for the best? I dunno. But I do know that every friendship has its rocky roads and in the end, you just gotta respect each other whether you agree with the person or not. Respect is a HUGE part of friendship just like trust. Without that trust or at least respect for the person, you can't expect them to return the same. I'll stick by some of the things I've said to the friend, but as to the other things....I really do regret them. If that person is reading this or even blocks me or something, I understand them for being upset too. I know they've been having things hard lately, I was too. But Im sorry for having added to that hardship with my words. I won't talk to him/her for a while yet as they asked me not to and also because I feel I did enough damage as it is. Now its time to let time heal the wound. Again, Im sorry for what happened and Im sorry for having handled everything so poorly. I hope things turn out better for you in the end.
Thats it for my vent, I hope the advice was good. Sorry it was so dang long folks
But I'll end with this. "The Pen is Mightier than the Sword". It can help, it can hurt. Use it wisely. Have a good night everyone.
